Marissa LaRocca, bestselling author, memoir coach, and developmental editor, seated on a wooden box

I'm Marissa.

I help writers find what they’re actually trying to say.

I work with memoir, essay, and personal narrative writers who are ready to shape their lived experience into something clear, compelling, and real. My own writing has covered identity, mental health, queerness, recovery, and the messy, nonlinear work of becoming.

I've published two #1 Amazon bestselling books—Starving in Search of Me and Everyone Is a Freak—and my writing has been featured in SELF, Well+Good, GO Magazine, Glam, Elite Daily, CanvasRebel, NashvilleVoyager, Topic, Pretty Progressive, The Chrysalis Reader, and The Chill Times.

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BACKGROUND

Coaching with real publishing experience

I'm a graduate of the SUNY Purchase Creative Writing Conservatory, where I started writing seriously nearly twenty years ago. Since then, I've spent more than fifteen years professionally writing, editing, and helping books take shape—as an author, editor, ghostwriter, teacher, and book coach.

My work has included ghostwriting and editing bestselling books for notable experts, public figures, and leading voices in their fields, as well as ghostwriting for a New York Times bestselling author. I also helped develop, teach, and manage the Launch Your Dream Book course at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, where I mentored hundreds of first-time authors through the process of writing, shaping, and publishing their books.

Over the years, I’ve gained hands-on experience with nearly every publishing path: my first book was traditionally published, my second was self-published, and I’ve supported numerous authors through the full self-publishing process. I’ve also managed production for two books published through hybrid publishers. As a result, I understand the differences between each route, what authors can expect, the potential pitfalls, and how to choose the best path based on their goals.

That unusually broad experience—combined with my strong understanding of positioning and book marketing—means that when I work with writers, I’m not only thinking about the sentence in front of us. I’m thinking about the shape of the manuscript, the reader’s experience, the book’s promise, and how to make it resonate with its intended audience.

WHAT I’M FOCUSED ON NOW

Through The Writing Mechanic, I work with writers telling the stories that feel hardest to explain

Identity, mental health, grief, family, relationships, survival, marginalization, reinvention, becoming—especially the kinds of experiences that feel hard to explain from the outside.

My approach blends emotional intelligence with structural precision. I care about the mechanics of memoir: how a memory becomes a scene, how a chapter finds its spine, how a paragraph turns the corner. Writing isn't just a product. It can be a tool for self-awareness, meaning-making, and reclaiming your story on your own terms.

WORK IN PROGRESS

Waiting for Wildflowers

I'm currently working on my third book, a memoir about queer love, abuse, emotional survival, and the long road back to self-trust.

If something here resonated, I'd love to hear from you.

Have a project in mind, a question about the process, or no idea where to start?
Reach out anytime. No pressure—just a conversation.